This afternoon, i was just thinking about different thing and words that have been said to me, beliefs i have held to heart poor fully thinking they are right.
A good number of us, have the same kinda issue, we hold so many wrong beliefs at heart and think we can't grow outta them and more. Here's the good news, we can grow outta those negative beliefs we have or we allow people have about us.
Here are those most common beliefs we see our self coaching which are wrong.
1. All my family members and friends must approve of my goals- Most of us grow grew up with the believe that our life (what we would be) should depend on someone or fulfill the expectation of others. Rather than being taught to ask ourselves who we are, we are expected to ask others for permission to become who we want to be and when they don't agree even when that's what you really love, you let go of that dream.
It is time to unlearn these lies and make changes. It takes courage to grow wiser and become who you really are. Never depend on anyone to approve of what you will or should or are to become. They never created you, so you should not even ask for their permission. its good to seek advice but when it seems like they are killing the dream with negative words, then its time to back off.
2. Haters are right about me- Don't let bullies, proud or rude people ruin you. No matter how much negativity is thrown at you by others, there is absolutely no need for you to stay put and partake in the decay they choose for their own lives. YOU decide how you want to grow.
What people say and do to you is much more about them, than you. I am not saying we should ignore all feedback, but then, so much hurt, disappointment and sadness in our lives comes from our taking things personally. It is more productive and healthy to let go of other people's good and bad opinion of you and operate with your own intuition and wisdom as your guide.
Trust in yourself alone. Begin to soar higher.
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