A good number of us always have a day or time when we look down on ourselves and say we can't achieve some things. Its OK to think like that provided you conquer that thought by proving to yourself and people who though you could amount to nothing, but what is not OK, is when you nurture the thought of "i cant achieve anything". You allow it grow and it becomes a part of you. it is wrong. well, should you find yourselves in this mess, i bet these tips would be a wake up call for you.
1. Sit With Your Thoughts: Gaining confidence could take time especially f you have totally looked down on yourself. Take some time each day to quiet your mind and senses so that they can develop more control over your "i can't make it" thought and interactions.
2. Find Yourself: Finding yourself is one major way of overcoming self esteem issues. Knowing who you are and what you stand for can also help give you more confidence. identify your angle, what you are crazy about and do them. Ask yourself if you are working in a job, doing something or in a place that truly represents what you feel you are here to do in this world? If you can't answer the question, then it's time you start thinking about how you could move towards your true passion in life, your true friends and more.
3. Don't Compare Yourself To Other: Comparing your self will get you nowhere because we all are not born the same way. Rather than comparing yourself with other peoples success and saying you can't make it, why not focus on the important hings in life to move you forward in all you do. Improve more on you life, skills, knowledge and you will see your self overcoming the people you were comparing yourself to.
4. Have A Positive Word For Every Negative Thought: Replace all your 'i can't " to " I CAN". Eliminate every negative thoughts and talk with a positive one. If you believe in your self, others will also believe in you.
5. Love Yourself: There is nothing as good as loving yourself. Loving yourself will give you the personalty, confidence and the wow factor. Know that you are worthy, special and peculiar. 1Peter 2:9.
SAY NO TO LOW SELF ESTEEM.
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