Are you in a relationship where you have no freedom, you cant go out, you can't contribute to anything, You cant even answer phone calls? then you need to check yourself. Most girls mistake this kind of relationship to mean that the guy is very caring and obsessed with you so he doesn't want to share? really? a relationship where you can't make decisions and go out and you call that caring?
Over caring and over affection can be an abnormality if its related to caging and no freedom. Care should be taking and this attitude should be realized early and mended in the proper way it should be. Abusive relationship never allow for peace. Many people misinterpret abuse as physical attack or dominance alone, but there is more to it. Abuse can be emotional, sexual, physical, psychological and financial.
Are you seeing any of these symptoms in your relationship? do not wait till you get married before you correct it. My friend once told me that you will know if your finance will be abusive in your marriage from the way he behaves during courtship. Therefore,if you see any of the following signs that will be mentioned in your relationship, you should quickly mend or leave the relationship to avoid having terrible marriage.
Physical Abuse: Physical abuse is the most common type of abuse. It involves slapping, hitting, threatening and much more.. Nobody wants a relationship where they will be beaten, controlled or dominated over instead of loving, caring and sharing things. If any one gets into physical abuse in a relationship, then the relationship should be ready to end. You have no right to abuse our partner no matter what he or she does to you. If you spouse or partner behaves like this or in similar way, i say you have to go get him/her checked up and such act should be taken seriously.. Never say he did it once.. if he can do it once, then he can surely do it again... Such act should be corrected at the earliest stage.
Frequent Accusing: This is another aspect most people don't take serious. Your partner should always trust and be there for you instead of accusing you for all the ill-happening in their lives. If you notice this, then you are on the verge of having an abusive relationship.
Multiple Affairs: This is a very common one, but some people are very cool with it. This is wrong. Your partner can not profess love to you and profess to another person.. You can't serve two masters. Having another affair is related to unfaithfulness and you should never keep quiet about it because you want to still be in the relationship. What is is not good is not good. If you are in a relationship, then your partner should be your one and only person in life and not one among many. Having several/ multiple relationships always make a person less committed and less affectionate. Have you heard of someone on multiple relationships having a good life or home? Once you notice this in your partner, cry out and complain about it. If he/she doesn't change then you might have to move on to someone who will make you there one and only person on earth.
Sexual Abuse: This is very common in marriages and relationships. Sex should not be the first course in your relationship but should only be a means to attain happiness in your relationship. You should never use your partner as your prey of weird fantasy. You can do any sexual activity provided you both enjoy it.
Improper Criticism And Unnecessary Public Teasing: Many people criticize their partners improperly with the mind of destruction. When someone criticize the partner or tease the person in the midst of friends, family or strangers, then he/she is trying to implement the authoritative power over the person in the most unpleasant way. This is a very obvious sign of abusive relationship
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