Every one should read this, it doesn't apply to people in relationships alone, its applicable to everyone. whether your working, a pastor, student....... you need to read it and ask yourself the question. It can be related to everyone, but the major focus is to couples.
There is a saying that goes thus; "until you find someone you are scared to cheat on you have no idea what love means" and I totally agree with this.
Temptations are all around us, and it’s easy to have a sneaky moment without getting caught but its an effort that is not worth it at the end of the day. Cheating maybe fun, it might be exciting or probably adventurous but it is also a huge betrayal of trust, and once trust is gone it can hardly be built back. There are some basic questions to ask one self before deciding to cheat on your partner:
1. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR PARTNER FINDS OUT?
Cheating is usually done in the secret and the secrecy in cheating is strong motivation to continue cheating, because you feel you will never get caught; but one question every partner should ask before cheating is how proud or ashamed of your act would you feel if your partner finds out that you have betrayed his or her trust?
2. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE CHEATED ON?
Being a cheating partner gives you that luxury of cheating and believing that your partner ought to remain faithful to you while you deviate from every promise you have made to that partner. Turn the table around for a second and imagine how it feels to be cheated on.
3. WHAT WOULD YOU REALLY GAIN IN HURTING YOUR PARTNER?
Cheating hurts and the hurtful part of it is that the partner who promised to stay true to you does the direct opposite of that. Before cheating, every person should ask what would be the gain in hurting that partner that you promised to stay true to. Is there really any need to hurt your partner?
4. WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF YOU GET CAUGHT?
You maybe careful to delete all forms of evidence in order to avoid getting caught but luck is fickle ans suddenly you're caught and somehow, your partner may get to know that you cheated on them. How would they react? Your relationship may end for ever, and even if it doesn't end, it’ll never ever be the same unless a miracle holds both of you together because once trust is broken it takes years to build it back
5. WOULD YOU WANT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO END?
This is also another part many cheating partners are involved in; you cheat on your partner and still expect the relationship to continue without crashing, like nothing happened. First, if you still do care about your partner, you should ask yourself if you are ready for the relationship to end, and if you aren't it should be a strong motivational factor to remain faithful. Are you ready to lose your relationship for an orgasm?
Ladies/Guys, there is so much to lose if you cheat on a loving partner, so why take the risk? if you are tired of the relationship, walk out or address your concerns to your partner and try to resolve them.
Remember “cheating is easy, try something hard like being faithful”
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